tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post5038304277052589362..comments2023-12-03T02:12:28.944-06:00Comments on Kodai Hills: Melting in harmonyShivahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05303339117055363095noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-55982860787237119432008-04-01T04:05:00.000-06:002008-04-01T04:05:00.000-06:00Thanks Deepa!I agree with you. Obviously, it takes...Thanks Deepa!<BR/><BR/>I agree with you. Obviously, it takes both of them to complement and harmonize..Shivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05303339117055363095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-34770824583453530792008-04-01T03:12:00.000-06:002008-04-01T03:12:00.000-06:00well written, indeed harmony is the key , however,...well written, indeed harmony is the key , however,<BR/>////Let us live like a pair of skaters. Skating in pair is a harmony////<BR/>this is a two way street, each one has to make consious effor towards establishing harmony. <BR/>I have witnessed men taking a harmonious stand only under rare cases, Its mostly the women who compromise on a situation when it involves "someone otherthan herself""..<BR/><BR/>I am sorry, if i sound like a feminist, But harmony is a two way street.Deepahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08368941819092880320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-66267207147226637142007-02-22T21:58:00.000-06:002007-02-22T21:58:00.000-06:00Willy, like you said, harmony is the key.Willy, like you said, harmony is the key.Shivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05303339117055363095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-90175664355540793142007-02-22T21:04:00.000-06:002007-02-22T21:04:00.000-06:00they compliment each other, men are physically str...they compliment each other, men are physically stronger but women are psycologically stronger -i think-, etc, etc... yes, i think the key word is harmonyLovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03113748230058715571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-9274081541875102842007-02-13T19:52:00.000-06:002007-02-13T19:52:00.000-06:00Shirsha - I disagree to your point that women will...Shirsha - I disagree to your point that women will be dependent on men for he is always physically stronger. May be it's true a decade ago, like Jeeves said. But, more than physical stength, mental strength dominates, and women are equally strong.<BR/><BR/>Again, my emphasis was not in establishing the equality of men and women, but in finding harmony in them, that would let men and women live in the synergy of mutual love and respect.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your wonderful comment.Shivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05303339117055363095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-8971077994831408162007-02-13T19:47:00.000-06:002007-02-13T19:47:00.000-06:00Jeevan - You are right. The harmony will result in...Jeevan - You are right. The harmony will result in blissShivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05303339117055363095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-70970617106257777622007-02-12T23:39:00.000-06:002007-02-12T23:39:00.000-06:00Shiva, theres this other factor also... despite th...Shiva, theres this other factor also... despite the fact that men and women are equals, despite the fact that thr is woman in a man and a man in every woman, women will have to depend on men forever, since man will forever have greater physical strength than women. <BR/>Despite how developed we are or rather how civilised we are, this inequality will continue to hold men in a different light than women. And it is this inequality which will lend awe to any achievement of a woman. It is this inequality which was understood clearly in the very beginning of life and has led to roles being assigned as they have been. <BR/>I can't help but find women who reach grt heights in their career while having a complete family life awe-inspiring. But somehow a man in a similar position doesnot hold out anything of that sort in my mind.Shirshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01819306470546234535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-46565006052539483152007-02-12T13:07:00.000-06:002007-02-12T13:07:00.000-06:00Thanks shiva for explaining in detail.Thanks shiva for explaining in detail.Priyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15149258892548866207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-10682980137209336852007-02-12T05:15:00.000-06:002007-02-12T05:15:00.000-06:00The dual of male and female gives life (male or fe...The dual of male and female gives life (male or female), like that the consensus and equality of male and female brings a good society.Jeevanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14063201530500784222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-37822906471031476922007-02-11T22:34:00.000-06:002007-02-11T22:34:00.000-06:00Thanks Jeevs, for the comment.Though I stressed on...Thanks Jeevs, for the comment.<BR/><BR/>Though I stressed on the suppression which turned into an exaggeration, I failed to emphasis the fact that it prevailed only in the middle age. The older period was a golden age where men and women were considered equals and the current age also offers due equality. Atleast in India,this is applicable only to the a few sections of the society and there still exists a section that is a victim of this malady.Shivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05303339117055363095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-82909019010775654552007-02-11T22:22:00.000-06:002007-02-11T22:22:00.000-06:00"I am also baffled when I see articles or posts th..."I am also baffled when I see articles or posts that exaggerates any accomplishments by women as if, she is incapable of what she has just achieved. "<BR/><BR/>Good post and nice lines. <BR/><BR/>While I agree with you on that, but somewhere probably the exageration stems up from being supressed for generations.<BR/><BR/>Its a changed scenario now, but this development and outlook is only a phenomenan of recent times, probably the last ten years. <BR/><BR/>Even if the earlier decade saw some working women, the work and personal life balance was not so easy, with women contributing to major part of domestic work. <BR/><BR/>Duality is agreed,, but somewhere the contribution of men and women to all aspects of life should be equal.Jeeveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02059095696768768954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-76693166565974006512007-02-11T18:28:00.000-06:002007-02-11T18:28:00.000-06:00Priya,As far as the mystery is concerned, you need...Priya,<BR/><BR/>As far as the mystery is concerned, you need to be man to experience it. I'm not sure if the women feel the same way as men, but I believe beyond reason that women also think there is mystery in men.<BR/><BR/>"Men and women are both fire and water and without each other its a vaccum" - AwesomeShivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05303339117055363095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-27442335947892123272007-02-11T18:18:00.000-06:002007-02-11T18:18:00.000-06:00The urge to dominate or subjugate someone arises o...The urge to dominate or subjugate someone arises only when there is fear, which will initiate actions that would prove yourself superior to the other. This has what exactly happened.<BR/><BR/>What do you mean by " Women were created for life?"<BR/><BR/>Both men and women are just the products of the ongoing process of evolution.<BR/><BR/>I agree to the point that there is meaning for everything that exists.Shivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05303339117055363095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-66122661217324954082007-02-11T18:05:00.000-06:002007-02-11T18:05:00.000-06:00Priya,Non-duality is a state where there is onenes...Priya,<BR/><BR/>Non-duality is a state where there is oneness. You become the pure existence and there is no more of male or female. You go beyond all differntiations. A state of being in universal love.Shivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05303339117055363095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-13571635066074474792007-02-11T13:59:00.000-06:002007-02-11T13:59:00.000-06:00Mystery of men and women - I will say if one has m...Mystery of men and women - I will say if one has more ego and attitude, the other will emerge as a supporting tool to have a better relationship. Mystery is the chemistry which goes or proves wrong. Not everyone is able to get along with others and ther is more psychology, intuition and empathy follows their path.<BR/>Men and women are both fire and water and without each other its a vaccum.Priyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15149258892548866207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-1337539162352576892007-02-11T13:58:00.001-06:002007-02-11T13:58:00.001-06:00without him she will not be a source of life - Oth...without him she will not be a source of life - Other than depending on motherhood she is always free and independent. The society pushes her into the hands of men to form a family and thinks he rules it. No. Its only when both can go witht he flow, the water runs smooth.<BR/>Why do you say men are superior? Some ancient theory proved those days bcoz of what it was and it can be wrong for todays civilization. If women are only meant to serve, why do we see homosexuals everywhere. People can satisfy themselves before searching for something.Priyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15149258892548866207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-85519537864384883672007-02-11T13:58:00.000-06:002007-02-11T13:58:00.000-06:00Men were afraid of the mysteries of womanhood - I ...Men were afraid of the mysteries of womanhood - I cannot agree men being afraid of womenhood. Give me an example, may be it can be clear to my thoughts.<BR/>Women were created for life - That is wat evolution of birth talks about and how do spread a message being alone. Women by birth is like a seed and they grow up like a plant with branches, leaves, flowers/ fruits and live as long its not destructed by evil forces. For every creativity, their a meaning and life existence is also the samePriyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15149258892548866207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20419501.post-80712359901462020222007-02-11T13:57:00.000-06:002007-02-11T13:57:00.000-06:00Shiva,Life exists only in duality and non-duality ...Shiva,<BR/><BR/>Life exists only in duality and non-duality is beyond life. - Ther can be only male and female with different soul. But with existence, both man and women have to join together and that is the purpose of life. Today we see single men and women, but theys till continue to have a hold with family by adopting someone and to show what life is. Ther is no way you can call non-duality. For every birth you depend a man and a women.Priyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15149258892548866207noreply@blogger.com