Connecting People.... Hey, I'm not promoting Nokia here. It's all about the status of the connections that exists among individuals through a sequence of communication leading to an established relationship, real in case of direct contacts and virutal in case of Blog or IM. Sometimes, the frequency of communication dwindles due to the apparent limitations like being occupied within the pond of our own life, relocating to a different place,disapperance of the common ground on which the relationship was established... may be there are countless reasons. Whatsoever happens, we still cherish the moments in any relationship and sometimes it is also revived as a pleasant surprise.
It just happened that, I published a post titled Mark Antrobus on 11 June 2006 in memory of one of my dear friend Mark, who became my buddy way back in 2000. We were in touch for 2 years and after I left my native place, the only time I remembered him was when I wrote this post. I realized that, all the gratitude and love for him was latent in my subconcious, till it found a way of expression and lack of remembrance doesn't mean lack of gratitude and love. A couple of months after I published this post, there was a comment from Elango, a friend of Mark saying that, Mark has been looking to contact me. Though I was happy, there was no means to contact him, as it was an anonymous comment with a name.
Finaly, in early March 2007, I got an email from Mark, expressing his gratitude for the post with the all his contact information. After a gap of 5 years, we found each other! Last month, I got a comment from Fay, who used to be a friend of Mark and his mom, when Mark and Fay were 17/18 years of age. I passed on each other's contact information and I hope they are in touch now. A few days before, there was an email from one Haggis, who knew Mark and his mom, probably in early 1960s. It is amazing that, even after a disconnect of nearly 50 years, friendship gets revived as a new blossom.
All that I could infer from these mails is that, Mark has been very inspirational and no wonder, he is still the same. I'm really happy that, I rediscovered a friend and Kodaihills is connecting people:)
Here is the post - http://kodaihills.blogspot.com/2006/06/mark-antrobus.html
I am amazed at how wonderful your blog has been in connecting you to people like Mark ! Blogs as a mode of communication have arrived. Thats a cliched thought, i thought. But better proven now ! :) Welcome back sir !
ReplyDeleteWow, this is really impressive! And u seem to be the kind of guy ppl remember and want to meet yrs later even!
ReplyDeleteShiva: Special moments always bring back the cherished ones never forgotten.
ReplyDeleteNothing is lost but always present invisible. When your rekindle such relationship through your blog, it comes back alive.
Connecting is always good and glad it happened through "kodai hills" which always stands tall and introducing such a wonderful person here to us.
Your meeting and relation with Mark and his mom Grace were very sweet! Your explanation about his cottage, their farmhouse inside the lemon grove and herbal drink are awesome… Mark is very natural person!!
ReplyDeleteIts really makes me wonder for 50 years they are searching for the contact. Wish all of them were in touch forever. Hope u meet Mark and his mom soon:)
good to know that you are a messenger for people:)
ReplyDeletemy yearly visit to kodai is coming soon...can you tell me a few hidden places which will be worth exploring??
Good friendship lasts long...I wish you meet them soon
ReplyDeleteCheers
shiva
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Wow! thats really very nice to hear Shiva... I understand how happy you should be to rekindle your friendship with Mark. Have fun!!
ReplyDeleteIts wonderful to have such a friendship.. :)
ReplyDeleteall the gratitude and love for him was latent in my subconcious, till it found a way of expression and lack of remembrance doesn't mean lack of gratitude and love
... so true! and here too spontaneity applies.. :)
Kavi, Thanks for your warm welcome:)
ReplyDeleteShirasha,
ReplyDeleteThat was a great compliment :)
Priya,
ReplyDeleteI'm flattered!!!
Jeevan,
ReplyDeleteGlad that you liked the narration and Thanks for your wishes.
Vishesh,
ReplyDeleteThanks for your compliment.
You make annual visits to Kodai. I would suggest -
Sheep farm at Mannavanur en route Poombarai and Kavunji - around 50 kms
Trekking to Vattakkanal, Gambling Rock and Vellagavi Village - 5 kms drive and 14 km walk
There is a falls beyond Berijam. However, it is closed for traffic.
Night stay at Berijam Forest Guest house is also good. You need to get the permission through some govt sources.
Let me know, if you need any specific information
Thanks Dawn
ReplyDeleteThanks KK. Nice to see you back in action.
ReplyDeleteYeah Mystic. I also feel fortunate to have such friendship.
ReplyDeleteGlad that you agree with it and relate it to spontaneity.
thanks shiva....i didn't know there was a falls after berijam....is it on the munnar road?? when we had gone to munnar they informed us that it is getting opened in 6months they are working on the road...
ReplyDeleteoh,what type of sheeps do they have?? the sheep with the wool??
wow very nice Shiva!
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
n stay connected Shiva :) Where r u??
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
Hey Shiva! Herez another example; me connecting with you through your blog after quite a while. So, how is it going?
ReplyDeleteIt is really nice to re connect with long lost friends and that it happened through your blog.
ReplyDeleteIts been some time ! Would want to stay connected with you! Hope all is well !!!
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ReplyDeleteVishesh,
ReplyDeleteThe sheeps are with lots of wool.
Thanks Keshi,
ReplyDeleteOften I get lost. Will be regular soon.
That's true Kamal. Will call you soon
ReplyDeleteKavi, Thanks,
ReplyDeleteTrapped in Madurai for a week. Just traveling around all the places. Hope to be in the normal mode in a week
Deepa,
ReplyDeleteLooks like an interesting Tag. Will do it ASAP. Thanks
Wow !!!!
ReplyDeletelooks like your blog is going places !!:) enjoy a good work
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voww....wonderful freindship...gud that its cherished for long! :)
ReplyDeletehi,
ReplyDeleteCame through priya's blog.you have a nice blog with lots of good contents.:)
Thanks Meenu
ReplyDeleteRathna,
ReplyDeleteGood to see you after a long time. Thanks
Thanks Kodai
ReplyDeleteWelcome Sowmya. Glad that you liked the blog. Priya connects lot of people though:)
ReplyDeleteWhere r u?
ReplyDeleteDawn- I'm back:)
ReplyDeleteThat's really connecting people!
ReplyDeleteLike most comments, you must be fundamentally a very good individual to connect and rekindle the old feelings to current warmth! A feel good post for the week end :) Thanks.
Thanks Kumar. Glad that you liked the post
ReplyDeleteThanks for reminding me of Mark Antrobus, whom i only met for one weekend at hengwrt, shortly before he left for India, I believe. I remember a long discussion of the symbolism of "Farewell Angelina" and the discovery of Jasmine tea. Even the short acquaintance left an indelible mark on me and i am glad to hear how he and Grace are after all this long time.
ReplyDeleteHi Brian,
ReplyDeleteThanks for visiting the blog. Mark remembered the incident and was looking for your contact information. You can send your email id to me at shivakumar.manoharan@gmail.com , so that I can pass it on to him